This comes from the New York Daily News, but it deals with the case in Kansas where a young woman was killed when her baby was cut from her womb, allegedly by a woman who had been faking a pregnancy.
What is so stunning to me is how the members of this rat terrier chat room noted that one of their own had been killed in a horrible way, and they also were aware that another group member had set up a rat terrier-related meeting with the victim the exact day of the murder. And that both women had talked of their pregnancies online.
Here's the tricky part: the chat room members had to get past the one member's pseudonym. Several members tracked down that info and called the police with the tip.
What I understand, but something non-Internet people may not know, is that these online communities are not only tightly-knit, they pay attention to each other, care about each other. For many online participants, the people they become close to online often know them better and are more nurturing and care about them with more attentiveness often than the participants' own family and face-to-face friends.
It is something I found in my dissertation research, and while some people may find this puzzling, I do not. I've experienced these intense online friendships myself, some now sustained for eight years.
I hypothesize that the reason for this intensity is the focused communication channel. Our face-to-face experiences are more diffuse, yet also more self-centered. Online, all communication, from a wide variety of sources, many of which involve multi-tasking and multi-threading, all in the end come through a narrow channel: THE SCREEN.
Our eyes are trained on the screen through the act of reading texts. Chat room texts take enormous concentration. Television, which people often have on as well, doesn't take nearly the concentration as processing texts online. It is even more difficult for people to maintain the kind of self-awareness and self-centeredness they may have in face-to-face encounters, where you are aware if you're having a bad hair day, of the pimple on your chin, of the gut overflowing out of your jeans. Online, your self-presentation also flows through the same narrow channel of the screen.
That's all I have to say on this topic right now, as I'm sort of thinking out loud. I spent many years studying gender in chat texts, and later in a very close online community and culture for my dissertation, and although I experienced this contrast (especially when attending face-to-face meetings of online friends), I neglected to explore this particular angle in my diss.
Chris
Link: New York Daily News - Home - Web search for rat terrier ends in murder.
Web search for rat terrier ends in murder
BY MAKI BECKER
DAILY NEWS STAFF WRITER
A chilling exchange on an Internet chat board for rat terrier owners shows how a crazed Kansas woman who allegedly ripped the baby out of a pregnant dog breeder set up the meeting.Other exchanges show how the board members figured out what must have happened and pointed cops to the suspect.
The first message in the tragic chain was posted Wednesday at 4:22 p.m., by a woman calling herself Darlene Fischer, with the screen name "fischer4kids" - but who was really accused killer Lisa Montgomery, authorities have said. The note was the bait to trap victim Bobbie Jo Stinnett.
"I was recommended to you by [name withheld by the Daily News] and have been unable to reach you by either phone or E-mail," the message read. "Please get in touch with me soon as we are considering the purchase of one of your puppies and would like to ask you a few questions."
Stinnett replied with a cheerful message at 7:44 p.m.:
"Darlene, I've E-mailed you with the directions so we can meet. I do so hope that the E-mail reaches you. Great chatting with you on messenger. And do look forward to chatting with you tomorrow a.m.
"Thanks [name withheld], and talk to you soon, Darlene!
"Have a great evening
"Bobbie"
Montgomery had been on the chat board often, using her own name and posting photos of her own rat terrier puppies and seeking mates for her own breeding projects.
Early Friday morning, as frantic news reports aired about the horrific baby snatching, the regulars on the Ratter Chatter site realized the victim was one of their own.
And then they realized that "Darlene" would have met Bobbie Jo on the day she was killed, and that the woman had arranged the deadly meeting through their chat board.
They also recalled that both Stinnett and Montgomery had discussed their pregnancies on the chat site.
Montgomery, who was not pregnant, was claiming as recently as last week that she was due in days.
"Darlene Fischer was supposed to meet her on [Thursday]," wrote one poster.
One chatter figured out that the Internet address for Fischer traced back to Kansas - where the baby was eventually recovered at Montgomery's home.
By 8 a.m., several members had called the police with the information they had gathered.
Police said the tips and a sighting of the suspect's car led them quickly to Montgomery.
By the time it was over, the pain was palpable in the messages. "We just saw a murder plan in front of us and it makes me so sad," wrote one poster.
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Originally published on December 19, 2004
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